A reflection and celebration of life as a Dominican growing up in the US – Graciously written by Euchy Silven, Addictions Case Manager
October 8, 2024
I was born in the Dominican Republic. At four years old, I came to live with my father in the United States. Yet what amazes me today is how those still vivid, preschooler memories have sustained a lifelong bond and connection with the culture and ways of my Island.
It took me, however, a long time to realize what it meant to be culturally and ethnically
Dominican – and the many ways it impacts who I am. Growing up, my family embraced our culture through music, food, and language – our parents made sure we spoke Spanish in our home.
To this day, I cherish the memories that certain songs, smells, or words immediately elicit, and that is why I strive to continue the same traditions with my own children.
Today, I can confidently say that I am proud and feel the uniqueness and honor that comes with being Dominican, especially having been born there.
Nevertheless, growing up I never understood why my parents had to work so hard to provide for their children. Yet their hard work paid off and they were able to achieve what some might call the American Dream. In spite of having an elementary-level education and limited English skills, my parents worked and managed to purchase a home and safe vehicles and were able to provide and meet their children’s needs.
There is value in the universality of stories, and in my case, the simple truth is that my father and mother, albeit in different ways, both made real sacrifices to bring me to the U.S. with the sincere hope and confidence that here I would not be faced with similar struggles to the ones they confronted growing up.
They wanted me to have a chance at a better education, a chance to pursue a career, the opportunity to build a name and a life for myself. As part of this, they made sure to instill in all of their children a work ethic and respect for the fruits born from hard work. While each person’s journey is uniquely paved, today I am proud to note that mine includes being the matriarch of a happy family, earning a college degree, and having an impactful career at a distinguished community organization that recognizes the value and diversity of ALL its employees and staff.